Dame Products

Founded in 2014 by sexologist Alexandra Fine and MIT engineer Janet Lieberman, Dame is committed to changing the way sexual wellness and pleasure is understood and experienced in the world

  • Ships to the USA & Canada
  • Women founded
  • 3 year warranty

Dame Products engineers for sexual wellness by building welcoming community, designing innovative tools, and bringing life-changing education to your bedroom.

  • Pleasure Equity
  • Sexual Health & Intimacy
  • Inclusivity

Why we like them

We’ve had multiple vibrators over the years, but the one that we’ve kept and still use on a regular basis is Dame’s Arc. It has been a reliable friend over the past several years, and still works as it did from day one. It’s incredibly easy to use (making it a great choice for a first time vibrator purchaser) and looks great on a nightstand. It’s lightweight, soft, and charges fairly quickly.

We’ve also been eyeing their Eva, a **wearable hands-free clitoral vibrator. We haven’t seen anything like this in the market yet, and innovative sex-tech brands are a godsend. Made for partnered sex, it stays in place with the help of two flexible wings that tuck under the labia. Its small, compact size makes it easy to use in a variety of positions. We love that it’s waterproof and rechargeable, too!

Three minutes with Dame

How did Dame come to be?

I consider myself a lifelong student of sexual health and credentialed sexologist, so after earning my Masters in Clinical Psychology with a concentration in sex therapy from Columbia, I decided to lend my passion and expertise to the world of sextech, particularly after learning more about the pleasure gap (aka the fact that only 39% of women “usually” orgasm versus 91% of men, on average). I co-founded Dame Products with my business partner, Janet Lieberman, to start necessary conversations, to listen rather than assume, and to create products that enhance intimacy especially for vulva-havers.

Where are your toys made?

Our vibrators and Pillo are all made in China. We have a very close working relationship with our vendors. Our engineering team visits them in person several times a year, and we can see first-hand that their practices are safe, ethical, and environmentally-friendly! Our Alu lubricant is made in the US.

What do your products come with?

All of our vibrators come with a USB charging cable and a user manual. Wall adapters are not included for any of our products. Eva comes with a charging base that has a lid for storage. Zee, Arc, Fin, Kip, and Pom come with fabric storage bags.