At Ruby Aro, we strongly believe that sexual pleasure is a natural and healthy part of human life. However, we also acknowledge that societal norms and expectations can create feelings of shame and guilt around sexuality, particularly for women.
We founded Ruby Aro with the vision of creating a safe and welcoming space for people to explore their sexuality and learn more about themselves. We believe that there is power and freedom in embracing who you are and what gives you pleasure.
Ruby Aro is about coming home to yourself. It’s about remembering who you are through retuning to your body, and staying present. Here, you can explore intimacy and meet yourself without judgment.
Because beyond pleasure, this is about finding freedom: in your body, in your truth, and in the way you choose to live fully. We’re honoured to be a part of your journey.
A letter from our founder
Creating Ruby Aro was not easy. I grew up in an Asian, Christian home where topics about sex and sensuality were often met with awkwardness, guilt, or shame. I am deeply grateful for my upbringing, but it was also a challenge to feel accepted for my full self. I carried a lot of weight just from existing as a woman in this world. I often felt wrong for wanting to feel good in my body, or if I was found attractive by others, it was somehow the wrong kind of attention. What should have been my superpowers became some of the biggest roadblocks in my life.
Ruby Aro was born out of that tension, and the need to remember myself. It is about healing past traumas and pain, and setting yourself free from societal expectations. It is about feeling aligned with your body, your soul, and your truth. It is about seeing yourself as whole, as complex and beautiful as you are, divine and infinitely loved by the universe.
If there’s anything I want people to take away from Ruby Aro, it’s this: you are already full and complete as you are, with infinite value. There is nothing in this world that can change that.
Thank you so much for being here. I hope you’ll love Ruby Aro as much as I’ve loved pouring myself into it.
Sending lots of love,